Am I a Failure? A New Year Resolution Aftermath.

I was having a casual conversation with a friend not too long ago. The kind of conversation that lives somewhere between kopi and confession...

New Year Resolution? No, Thank You!

I don’t have a resolution for 2026. In fact, I refuse to have any. I have voluntarily, cheerfully, and with full philosophical commitment, d...

Staying Until the Next Year

I remember reading  A Long Way Down  by Nick Hornby many years ago, at a time when I was young enough to think I understood despair, but old...

“Have a Merry Christmas!” — But Who Actually Has the Energy for That?

A few Decembers ago, I found myself standing in a shopping mall after work, arms full of bags, clothes slightly damp from the rain outside, ...

Fear and Where It Stems From

Fear rarely comes from failure itself. It comes from what failure threatens to take away. When people say they are afraid to fail, what they...

Mariah Carey, The Long Game, and the Art of Staying Eternal

In early September, when the sun still felt like it was auditioning for a job in the equator and Christmas felt like a distant rumour, I wro...